I have been uncomfortably prompted to write about marriage. When I read posts about gay marriage I am always waiting for the shoe to drop. Is it going to be another piece justifying a lack of care, interest, or concern. This makes me uncomfortable because I have beliefs and ideas that I think are helpful but somemight find harmful. It’s a clash that can’t be ignored but hopefully/prayerfully I can navigate. I am still not sure how to communicate everything that needs to be said.

As far as I can tell people are complex sexually speaking. Our natural tendencies fall on a spectrum. A spectrum that has end posts and that very much adjust in life as we live and enter into various commitments.

Sex and marriage are not the same thing although many Christians who write about gay marriage conflate the two, apart from sex it is good for…

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